Child Lying, Why?

Lying is not good deeds, and if left can make a child easy to make lies. Parents must inculcate the importance of honesty. Parents also need to know why their kids lie. Sometimes children lie because they feel afraid if their parent angry when they making a mistake, for example, Dina breaking the glass, for fear of being scolded her mother, she said that her brother who broke the plate. Lies like that if allowed would result Dina learn to delegate her mistakes on others.

Sometimes the child is lying because the copy of the surrounding environment, such as children see their parents lie. Because parents are a child role model, so when children see their parents often lied, he will also imitate.

Children can also lie to get what he wants, for example, ali wants a new toy, so when his parent saying that he still have a lot of toys, ali replied that his old toys are broken / missing.

Every lie is generally have a reason for it lies, so parents need to be careful in dealing with children do lie. Some of the things parents can do is:

1. Be a good role model for children, because children always imitate what their parents do.
2. Find the reasons why children lie, if there is our attitude that triggers a child to lie. for example, because the kids make a little mistake we immediately angry and punish him.
3. Get close with the children, so she feels safe and does not need excuses when making mistakes.
4. Instill the importance of honesty and why the lie was not a good thing.
5. Warned when children lie, so children are not accustomed to lying Sphere: Related Content